Dating sites give me the creeps. I
have done some research over the past few months and had some fun with weird
people on these sites. Stop me if I am wrong, but is the standard greeting by
most men... Hi there sexy!? Or maybe just give their telephone numbers and
email addresses out and hope for the best? Is the reason that they are
desperate or holding thumbs for an unsuspecting female who will fall for this
inane talk?
What about starting a
conversation... And what else are you doing? What? Really guys, come on now.
What do you think we are doing sitting in front of the computer? I know many
women can multi-task but chatting somewhere takes up all my concentration and I
can’t be doing something else as well. Maybe they think I am doing washing
dragging my laptop around with me. Not likely!
Let me warn you girls these guys are
insistent. They want to know what you are wearing for no reason I could surmise
at all. They will also keep asking the same idiotic things over and over. There
were times I was wondering if the comments were computer generated. However I
think some computers have brilliant programmers who could surely think up more
intelligent pick-up lines.
There are lonely and desperate men
out there. And let us not forget the women. Someone told me there are some who
immediately want to know what they earn a month. Perhaps looking for potential
support in the future? There are even hookers plying their trade on the sites.
That was interesting news to me. How innovative of them. You think we get spam
here? Think again, spammers zap around all over the World Wide Web.
One guy couldn't stop telling me
what he owns, including 27 sports cars!! Wow, I wonder if he thought that would
impress me and cause me to hyperventilate and beg for a meeting. How many cars
can you drive at one time I ask you? Sex is one of their favorite topics. They
can’t stop talking about it and if you are not charmed by it they feel
intensely offended. Obviously it is the only thing their little minds can
contain for that moment.
If you are looking for intelligent
conversation with someone who is educated, think again. I have chatted to a
very few, can’t even count them on one hand, interesting and intelligent men. Another
thing that keeps their concentration singularly is private photographs of you.
I am sure you can use your own imagination on that one. Some of them really frightened me with their
blatant sexual overtones.
Do men really think about one thing
only? There has to be some who are not ruled by only that and have other ideas
about finding someone to maybe have a relationship with. It was a very
intrusive and invasive experience most of the time and I don’t think I will be
doing the dating scene on the internet just yet. But it was great fun to know I
am collecting fodder for this blog and not one of the vulnerable females out
there who is just looking for someone real.
Hi Rea, nice artikel! Ek is ook al deur daai trippie en het n paar ordentlike mense ontmoet,en ons is vandag nog pelle. Mens moet maar net die kaf van die koring skei....
ReplyDeleteDankie Joe! Ja gelukkig het ek darem ook een goeie vriend gemaak uit die deurmekaar boedel!!
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